The mother has given strick orders to all the people who have cared for our son not to let him go 1 minute prior to the court ordered pickup. My travel time each way is always atleast an hour and she is at work when the pick up is made. Why does she care if I am a few minutes early? To make my life harder thats why.

Actual text messages below.

                                             May 5th 2010

Safije: Let me know when you arrive and the baby sitter will bring him out to you.

Stan: Ok Outside @ 11:40AM

Safije: It’s suppose to be Noon pick-up. I would like to stick to the court order. I will have her come down at 12.

Stan: It’s 11:45A

Safije: I think we should follow the court order so we don’t have any problem.

Stan: 15 minutes? There will come a time when you are picking him up from me. We are going to have to be a little civil with each other.

Safije: I am civil. Just ask that you follow what the judge has laid out for the time being.

Stan: No problem. Next time I’ll wait 15 minutes if I arrive early.

                                                 June 30th 2010

Stan: I’m outside. I have a taxi waiting. It’s 11:50AM and you’re making me wait until noon because of a court order. Ten minutes ok