The referee in my child custody case started off as a fair referee granting me visitation every wednesday from noon until friday at 5 pm.
As the weeks/months/years have pasted since this custoday case has began the referee has not been as fair to me. Examples below.
1. I have requested on numerous occasion's to address the court about lies the mother has told the court and she has denied me to ability to show proof the mother has lied, yet she asked the mothers opinion on certain issues. JUSTICE DENIED.....
2. I have tried to tell the court of about the unsafe condition's of the child's daycare which I have hidden video's of as proof. The referee's response to my claim " I am sure the mother is keeping the child in a safe enviorment" ....I HAVE VIDEO"S AND SHE IGNORES THEM...
My son is now 2 years and 10 months old and he is entering his 4th daycare. Is that the proper way for the court to alow the child to be cared for? The mother works Monday -Friday and works on average from 9 am till 6 pm. I have requested to be the primary caregiver since I work from home and can allow my son to sleep sound and secure for the full night instead of waking him up at 7 am to bring to a daycare. I can personally see to it that he has a complete breakfast, lunch and dinner as opposed to relying on a daycare. I can attend to his needs and be at his side at any moment instead of relying on strangers.
The first daycare the mother stopped after 12 weeks of age because I personally went and took my son since the mother was not allowing me time with him. I personally filed for custoday because the mother told me to if I wanted to be with him on my own. This I have on video stored in my blackberry that I can not figure out how to upload it to this site but will provide to the court upon request.
The 2nd daycare was located in a house that had a license to operate as a daycare but illegally rented out the basement and provided care for my son in thier personal residence which is not legal nor safe. i complained to the court and building department with no results. Video's of various occasion's below.
This frist video will show me dropping off my son at the daycare the mother has decided to use. It kills me everyweek to return him and see him beg to stay with me.
http://youtube.com/watch?v=sqlb6yzoy94?feature=youtu.be
http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=sXv-JcOCtJQ&feature=youtu.be This video below will show the daycare denying me access to the illegal unit
upstairs.
http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=M1iYJ2xSGSc&feature=youtu.be
Another video of the daycare admitting they operate upstairs as a daycare. The mother has told the court they are no longer a daycatre and are just babysitting. i have tried to show the court and they did not listen.
http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=0ZqYeocx9Rw&feature=youtu.be
This video will show me picking up my son only to find out the basement has been rented. The mother never notified me of this.
http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=sXv-JcOCtJQ
This video will show me dropping off my son and the daycare provider left a family friend in charge. When i complained to the court about this issue the mother stated it was a family member. This video will show her telling another lie to the court.
http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=rlU42P-vtvs
This video shows me trying to contact the mother in an emergency situation with no luck.
https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=6mRrSDg0MHo
This video shows me trying to complain to the building department after numerous complaints. the building department told me they checked it out once and were shown a daycare's license for the unit. I tried to show them eveidence and thy ignored it.
http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=D1JkmqiZxZI&feature=youtu.be
The 3rd daycare was an at home care attendant. The lady was nice and caring. This lady no longer cares for our child and he has moved onto his 4th daycare. The lady who was our childs 3rd daycare provider has told me on numerous occasions that the mother was an angry lady. She has also told me that our sons mother yelled at her on more the one occasion and had threatened to quit if she was ever talked to again the way our sons mother yelled at her.
The 4th daycare is a YMCA located near the mothers job. This is a day care that the mother drops our son off at for 9 am and picks him up after 5pm Monday - Friday. The mother must wake our son up at 7 am everyday to feed and dress him to transport him from Staten Island to Manhattan. Our son is 2 years and 10 months old. A child should not have to be woken up this early if it is not 100% needed. A childs brain is still growing and this will cause him harm in the long term.
In addition to this being his 4th daycare in 2 years and 10 months of life. My visitation has been reduced because the mother stated that he was starting school . Any type of schooling for a child this young is usually just a few hours sdo the child can interact with other children. The mother keeps him at the daycare for 8 plus hours a day. I am the father who can work with his schedule so that our son can be cared for under better conditions. If it means that I work till midnight or latwer that is something I am willing to do.